I've also experienced non-violent forms of assault. I have noticed that while I receive plenty of street harassment, I do not tend to feel physically scared for my safety in these situations in the way a lot of smaller women do. Bella did urge us to observe the detail, and that's what I'm doing. I am a woman who is as tall as the average man, and I absolutely think physical realities matter in the situations, sorry. people who have done kink in the past don't have to disclose that either (obviously unless they're doing it again). also expecting a partner with partners of multiple genders to disclose it is also not reasonable. nor would u expect a rape survivor to disclose it prior to a hookup or even at the start of a relationship. for example, a woman with many past sexual experiences being shamed by a hookup after he learns a triple digit body count would be wrong. It really isn't reasonable to expect that a hookup tell u their entire sexual history beyond a clean bill of health. it's kind of the only tim the show spoonfeeds you a theme. it's shown that gay men are given very little grace in society and that's a running theme in the show including with his grindr hookup. Even in the narrative of the show we see kwame's friends laugh him off when he mentions sexuality existing on a spectrum and then shutting him down about his hookup story. it's why her fetishizing of black men is just thrown in there last minute, it's meant to deliberately make her unsympathetic and unlikable. But still, I think it was wrong of him not to be up front with her beforehand. I should take the homophobia into account when considering her reaction.
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"I really think it's a matter of her feelings being hurt plus her homophobia" She's also a pretty shitty person in a number of respects.Īfter reading this comment on this thread: That said, Kwame made a mistake and I don't think he should be condemned for it. It could be argued that he tricked her into orgasming as well that's a vulnerable spot to be in. If he had told her he was gay, then they might still have slept with each other, but now she knows that there's a good chance there's no connection there. I think she's right that he had sex with her under false pretences, and that she was effectively having sex with a different person. Hearing that he was gay probably made her think that he wasn't interested in her at all she would have been confused as to what he was even doing. She had sex with somebody assuming that he was interested in women, therefore turned on and interested and sexually attracted to her. I think it was wrong of him not mentioning that he was gay.
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